Putting yourself in the place of the viewer or listener is a very powerful way of delivering a message.Recently, I was listening to a politician opposing a new Government policy on homelessness. Even though she was (on her own admission) not homeless, and never had been, she was able to empathise with the plight of those who were. This is an approach that is extremely effective in getting your message across. You have to avoid sounding patronising, but at the same time you need to show that you appreciate the circumstances that you are describing.If you have witnessed the situation first-hand, then preface your remarks with that statement. If not, then begin by describing how you would feel if you were in that position, then describe what you would like to see done.
Bill Clinton was, and probably still is, an expert in being able to empathise with people.Maybe it’s coaching, maybe it’s natural, or maybe it’s subterfuge, but it works, If I were you, I’d take note.
By Alan Stevens, Media Coach www.mediacoach.co.uk